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So weary, so blue, so sad and brokenhearted, and it's all because of … .
Life was so sweet, Life was a song. Now I've gone and left you,oh,where do you belong?
And it's all for the love of a dear little girl. All for the love that sets your heart in a whirl.
Today,borther told me that "love is something you have to choose".
But if I really know how's the love? I have no idea 'bout this.
He said: "Stop living your life like you are in some kind of movie. Stop trying to cast your true love instead of just meeting him. Love is not always a lightning bolt; maybe sometimes it is just a choice. That's just it.
I don't know that he is the love of my life, but I've decided to give him the chance to be...
Maybe true love is a decision, a decision to take a chance with somebody, to give to somebody, without worrying whether they will give anything back. Or if they are gonna hurt you or if they are really the one.
Maybe love isn't something that happens to you, but it is something you have to choose."
Yes, that is not "I don't have my own chance", but "I've to give him the chance to be".
Just switch. Did you feel it was so hard to speak it out, and then gave it up?
Or just been around him was enough; even he didn't know who you were?
You don't need to wait for your Mr.Right always. You just need to find your Mr.Right Now. Give him a chance to be your only one. And show him the same way, to make him believe you are his only one,too.
Many people still wander what fashion means,so do i. Nowadays,fashion's meanning has been extented.It not
only equals to those luxury ,advanced and fashionable things,but also the attitude toward life. Only wearing those glamorous and stylish dresses of superbrands,such as prada or givenchy,is not fashion;Driving modish ferraris
cars is of course not fashion ;Nor singing the most popular songs.
A man who enjoys his life in his own way is in fashion. Accordingly,Coco Chanel is in fashion;Pablo Picasso is in fashion ,as well as musical genius--Robbie Williams.All of them have particular personality which makes them more attractive and great and all these personalities are expressed through their dresses , behaviors and words.We can see Chanel's creationary from those excllent dresses she designed.We can learn Picasso's mental world by his paintings.Listening to Robbie's songs,we can understand what he wants to tell us .Of couse there are so many fashionable person else in this world.They show their talent and personalities constantly to us and that's why this world is so colorful.
Imagine that all the people have the same personality,then there will be no such a thing called "personality" and this world will lose its color.So,just be yourself ,let fashion go away perhaps,there are many,like me,who are escping from love by giving themselves a lot of reasons to do that and deceive themselves.For many times,I think that a song named "THE SINGLE'S LOVE SONG"sung by LinZhiXuan has said the feelings to the hearts of many of us.
Ok,,it is certain that we shall hold my studies at the most important position,however,I donn't know if you will have a piece of pitiful or sad smile in your face when an opportunity to fall in love with the girl that you had once a sweet dream about slipped beside you before you know.
Perhaps once you have owned love,you will feel your campus life getting colorfful and everything you do including your studies will become more meaningful.Those who say being simple is more happy are not telling truth.If you have a chance to love ,donn't give up easily.Really,we should have a vauleable period of time to recall when we are old.Or you will be reg retful to miss the most beatuiful days when you are young.My brothers and sisters,donn 't escape again,go fowards bravely to in search of your own happiness without hampering your studies certainly.Let your campus life is filled with sweet momories.
All the above is only my own ideas and thoughts, which are only offered to you to refer to.if your heart has been conquered by a girl for 2 2years, but you don't have enough courage or confidence to express your mind then , what should you do?
Most people will encourage you to go ahead and express your feeling.But I think she should be conscious of your behavior more or less in those two years.And what is her responses? As if nothing have happened?If not,you can have a try.
If my whole life is considered to be 100%: I give 20% to my parents; it is they who gave me birth, fed me and taught me how to be a woman.
I give 20% to my career. A man lives in this world for decades, he should leave something to other people. I may not make my name remembered, but I cannot die without having done anything meaningful.
I give 20% to my friends. When they need me, I will help without hesitation. We will unite and fight together.
I give 20% to my man. I will let he know that he may lose his parents, his job, his friends, but he still has me to stand by his side to give his my love and power.
I give 20% to myself. When I am tired, I will go somewhere quiet and rest without telling anybody. When I am in pain, I will dry my tears and face the world with a smile again. When I take my last breath, I want to talk to God: "Thank you for giving me all I had"
I believe god,or sth else that control all,and decide all. because i believe sb,or sth,will,save me ,out of the buring fire.
I remeber one song named fire plain! yes ,all alike the dream,and I am wondering and whispering in the nightmare…
Augenbraue•J--11.11.2009
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本文内容于 2009-11-12 11:22:04 被黄杨树编辑